She loved seeing him in his navy-blue uniform – a source of pride for Carolyn and her siblings. But it was more than the attire or the idea of distributing mail that piqued her interest. It was the ability to have a “good job” that could support a family.
At 17, with a child of her own, Carolyn put aside thoughts of her dream career and worked a variety of jobs to make ends meet as her family grew.
Decades later, the 62-year-old mother of four works as a housekeeper at a Detroit nursing home where her annual salary is $28,000 – above the poverty line for a single adult but less than needed to get ahead.
In 38 percent of households in our region, families are forced to choose between basic needs like food and health care or rent payments and transportation.
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“I’ve been at my job almost 20 years,” Carolyn said. “I still don’t always make enough to pay my bills and save much.”
“I didn’t know where to turn for help but 2-1-1 answered the phone and talked me through exactly where to go. It was awesome.”
A CALL FOR HELP
Last April, with the COVID-19 pandemic ravaging much of the country, and afraid of what might happen if she contracted the virus, Carolyn began working reduced hours.
“Our residents were dying,” she said. “We lost at least 30 people. A lot of my coworkers were sick. I have preexisting conditions – diabetes and high blood pressure. I didn’t want to catch COVID and end up dead.”
The time off would cost her. Without the ability to work overtime, Carolyn fell behind on her bills. While she prioritized paying her rent, utility payments fell behind and late notices began arriving. If nothing changed, she feared she might soon lose her power.
“It was a stressful time, for sure,” Carolyn said.
When a friend told her about 2-1-1, United Way’s free and confidential helpline, Carolyn didn’t hesitate to call. And she’s not alone. In 2020, 2-1-1 handled more than 114,000 calls for food, housing, financial assistance, utility assistance and more – an increase of 46 percent over the previous year. Requests for utility assistance have increased by 15 percent.
“So many people are struggling,” said Tasha Ball, 2-1-1 data and performance manager at United Way for Southeastern Michigan. “That was true even before the pandemic and it’s truer now.”
Empathy and Compassion
Tasha knows what is like to be on both ends of a 2-1-1 call. Long before she began working for 2-1-1, she made a call for help herself.
“I was out of work for the first time in my whole life,” Tasha said, reflecting on what she calls an exceedingly difficult period. “I didn’t know where to turn for help but 2-1-1 answered the phone and talked me through exactly where to go. It was awesome.”
Encouraged by the initial conversation, Tasha wanted to do for others what had been done for her.
“I remember not feeling judged,” she said. “The person who answered my call had empathy and compassion.”
Carolyn agreed, saying her experience with 2-1-1 was unlike what she had previously encountered when reaching out for help.
“They were very helpful; telling me exactly what I needed to do and really trying to understand my situation,” she said.
For the first time in a long time, Carolyn could breathe a sigh of relief. Help was on the horizon. Donate now to these services that help working individuals like Carolyn.